had been in singapore these few days. busy doing up my car, sending my car for repair coz of the black smoke keeps coming out of my exhaust.

my mum went to hospital for operation to remove a tumour in her kidney. so she had to remove the kidney to play safe. if not the tumour might be cancerous and might affect other organs of hers. luckily she's sound and fine now recuperating at home. my dad is overseas on his air force exercise in thailand. then i have to work and departed the day my mum is sound and safe out of the operation theatre.

first and for most i would like to thank my younger brother, LAWRENCE who's there to take care of my mum accompany her those days when she's in hospital till i come back. just nice my leave is after my athens flight which is my last flight in january. now i stay at home these days to accompany my mum and drove my mum to hospital for check up.

touch wood . hope this kind of things wouldn't happen to anyone anymore .... take good care of your body. and drink more water will never go wrong. been so so busy these few weeks and really falling sick very soon ..... updating this website for what i haven't been doing for a month is like 4 hours of work one shot.

but so many things had happened these weeks in january that kept me real busy .... really sorry to those ppl who i missed my appointments with and for those missed calls and un answered sms .... thanks for your understanding.... i'm signing off ... going to bed a 4.50 am .... good nite....

back on the 7th of jan i recieved a call from bedok police station regarding needing me to attend court as a witness for an assault case. actually what happens is .....

on the 14th of nov, me and my younger brother were at a friend's place in pasir ris to celebrate his birthday. but in the middle of the night when we were playing mahjong, my team girl, sherene, called me on my mobile phone. she's crying from what i heard from the conversation. she says she need me to go down to accompany her. i asked her why, but she just said that, her ex bf beat her up at her apartment and ask me to go down...

i drove my car down to her apartment in pasir ris. saw her at the guard house. crying with tears and bearing bruises on her hands and face. we then headed back to her apartment. she then told me that her ex bf came to her place and beat her up and snatch her handphone over she going out with another guy. i was thinking in my mind, since she said she had already broken up, with her ex bf for a few months already, there's nothing wrong seeing another guy at all !!

she borrowed my mobile phone and start making calls for an hour plus. i waited patiently at her apartment hall and corridor wondering around her hall. from the spilled food on the floor, can see that she's having her dinner halfway when her ex bf came to quarrel with her and started to beat her up.

after over an hour of conversation over my mobile phone, she told me that her ex boyfriend is coming over.  cause there's another colleague of ours happened to be with him. actual fact is that after the quarrel they had in the apartment, her ex bf went to look for another guy who happened to be our colleague. and the colleague suggested that her ex bf and she should talk things out nicely instead of quarrelling....  my team girl suddenly told me to wait downstairs first. cause she says her ex bf is an ns police. and he's very violent and is drunk; and might beat me up  because he will think that i might be my team girl's present bf. i then agreed and went downstairs.

so i told her i might need to go off very soon. cause my younger brother is still at our friend's place in pasir ris. and i need to fetch him go back jurong, where we live. so i say i'll call my younger brother to come down and accompany me. just in case anything happens, since my younger brother is a taekwondo black belt and instructor. few mins later my younger brother arrived in taxi and i met him at the car park of where my car is parked. so both of us were talking. i told my brother that my team girl quarrelled with her ex bf and the ex bf is very violent. we then decided to wait and see what happens. cause she's only a girl. how can she defend herself ?

me and my younger brother then hide behind our car. mins later, i saw a red car with 2 man inside drove past us and went up the apartment. after they went up, mins later i heard my team girl screaming. so i went up to the apartment. saw my team girl and there were struggling. then when her ex bf saw me, he came up and pull my collar, confronted me and ask if i'm her present bf or not. so i told him off, i'm her team boy who flies with her in the same team. he then let me off. and made me leave the apartment before he beat me up.

so i went downstairs, i saw my brother who's still waiting in our car. my younger brother then shouted across to me said my team girl screaming for me from her apartment and i dashed upstairs to the apartment. and saw my team girl lying on the floor and her ex bf is like beating her up. me and the other male colleague who accompanied her ex bf to her apartment then stopped the both of them. my team girl got up and search her ex bf pocket for her handphone, which is taken away by her ex bf earlier. she then found his car keys and ran downstairs. he wanted to chase. but i stood infront of him upright telling him to settle things nicely. why wanna fight over things like that, over a relationship, it's not worth it ! but he pushed me away. i fell and knocked a big flower pot outside the apartment and the pot broke.

he then ran downstair. i followed and saw him downstair. he then ran to my younger bro who's standing in the carpark, he put his palm rounding my brother's neck and ask him who's he. asking him is he my team girl's new bf. i ran over and told him that he's my younger brother. and he's here to fetch me home back to jurong together. he then let my younger brother off. and ran after my team girl.

but by then, my team girl managed to ran up her apartment and locked the door after she found her phone i suppose. while her ex bf was locked outside. her ex bf then tried to  climb over the gate at her lobby gate. and then i ask the other colleague how's everything ? my colleague said he had told my team girl to lock her door and call the police on her own accord if she wants to. so we left the apartment. but when we passed the guard room. i went back to the guards and told them that my team girl's unit is being harassed. and leave the case for the guards to handle.

after i reach home, my team girl called and asked why we went off. she told me that her ex bf broke into her house and beat her up. threatened to kill her with a pair of scissors. but she managed to escape when suddenly her ex bf fell and fainted for a few seconds suffering from hyper ventilation i guess. and she ran to the guard house and call the police from her guard house.

so this is the whole story on my brother and my side. the truth of what i know and what had happened. but over the past few days of the trial, the evening chinese papers had been reporting this case on the headlines. saying lots of things that is misleading. creating gossip and news value to attract more buyers. sad to say it's their job. but it's our reputation. they said there's smuggling cigarettes involved in this case. but to my knowledge up till today, i didn't know anything about it. in the first place, if there's this kind of things of smuggling illegal items, logically speaking. do you think if it's illegal things, do you think i will risk my life my job, just for a colleague like this ? so i keep my fingers crossed.

at the same time. good news is that the accused, who's my team girl's ex bf had been almost convicted. the charges of criminal intimidation (threatening to kill), theft of handphone and house break had been convicted. now, waiting for judgement on the 15th of feb. so end of the day, let's see how the chinese evening papers would write. their reports on this case is so juiced up. i was thinking, if i were the girl, i might have just committed suicide for innocence...

the ex bf even engaged a lawyer to fight this case, trying to turn the story around in court saying that he didn't beat my team girl, and said that my team girl beat him up. another thing he (the accused) bullshit about is that he said my team girl locked him up in the toilet from outside, and he only manage to get out using the scissors to break the lock. thinking carefully, how can a toilet door be locked from outside ?? does it make sense ?? and the scissors (evidence) is not even damaged. how much strength does a woman has ? and saw what he did to me and everyone that day. how would u believe that he's not violent ?

Why didn't the papers publish these ??!

what i can say is that the reporters are really killers with their pens ...